Two drinks now feel like a two-day fog

2026-10-06 4687 views 10 posts

I'm about ten weeks into reta and down 17 pounds, which I'm genuinely happy about. But something changed with alcohol and I want to know if it's just me. I used to have two margaritas with friends on a Friday, wake up a little tired, be fine by noon.

Last three times, one and a half drinks left me foggy, headachy, and flat until Sunday afternoon. Not drunk — just draggy, like a low-grade hangover that overstays its welcome. The upside: skipping the second round is effortless now, and my sleep app is thrilled.

The downside is the ritual — I like having something in my hand while everyone else orders. So I'm curious, did your relationship with drinking shift on this? And what did you swap in for the social part? I've been nursing an iced tea in a fancy glass, wich mostly works, but I'd love more ideas.

I run a cafe, so I’m around croissants and wine samples all day, and I’ve noticed the same shift since starting this med. What actually helped was tracking drinks next to meals and sleep: my worst fog days were ones where I’d skipped lunch, had one or two, then woke at 3am.

Now I eat a real protein-y snack before going out and alternate sparkling water with lime. Not magic, but the Sunday flatness is way less. Are you eating noticeably less on the days you drink? That was the big clue for me.

Not just you. Two kids and a Sunday fog is a hard no here, so I started a dumb note in my phone: drinks, what I ate, next-day energy.

Sweet mixers are the killer for me — a margarita = headache + flat all Sunday. Tequila soda with extra lime is less brutal but still meh.

Now I do one drink, then switch to club soda in a wine glass so nobody asks questions. Are you having them on a mostly empty stomach?

Since my appetite went weird, that seems to make the next day way worse than the actual alcohol.

Not just you. Airport/hotel version hit me hard too: two glasses of hotel happy-hour wine and I was useless until Sunday.

My watch showed resting HR +9 and sleep score in the toilet. What helped was treating it like travel logistics — giant water bottle before/after, actual food first (even a sad protein box), and soda water with lime in a rocks glass so I’m not the weird one at the bar.

Sharp question: are you eating way less before drinks now? That was my biggest variable. I track drink, food, sleep, next-day fog in a note, and it’s stupidly consistent.

Not just you. I noticed this around month three and started a dumb little note in my phone: each drink, plus next-day energy 1–5.

The pattern was almost embarrassingly clear — one drink fine, anything past that cost me most of Saturday. For me it was less about the alcohol and more about not eating much before, so I’d sip faster.

Now I do one real drink, then switch to soda water with lime in the same glass, and I still feel social. Curious: are you drinking on an emptier stomach than you used to?

That was the variable I’d missed in the old Friday margarita threads.

not just you. i'm a late-night gamer and my soda-swap brain went straight to mixers lol.

i started logging my drinks in the same note as food and realized margarita nights were also nights i skipped dinner + was way more dehydrated from caffeine/controller sessions. tequila soda + lime was less brutal for me than sugary marg mix, but even then i have to actually eat something and drink water between rounds.

are you eating way less on those days now? bc my fog tracked harder with empty stomach + poor sleep than with the actual drink count.

One thing I’d check: are you eating enough before? Since starting, my appetite is lower and I’ve accidentally had drinks on a near-empty stomach.

Two margaritas after a solid protein meal = manageable. Two after a low-protein day and only coffee/water = next day is wrecked.

I lift 4x and my resting HR is up ~8 bpm the next morning, sleep is chopped. It’s not a moral thing, just a bad recovery trade.

What’s your last real meal timing before drinks?

I’ve started pre-gaming social stuff with a real snack from the drawer—cheese stick, nuts, half a protein bar—because if I drink on a chaotic no-lunch day it’s way worse. Also swapped my second drink for soda water with lime in a wine glass.

Sounds dumb but it keeps the “I’m holding something” thing going. Mine is more next-morning brain fog than same-night, though.

Does yours hit while you’re still out, or only the next day? Trying to figure out if it’s the alcohol itself or just not eating enough those days.

Sorry to hijack — any cheap dorm protein that doesn’t taste like sad cardboard? I’m rotating eggs, Greek yogurt, and regret.

Anyway, on the drinks: I started logging “one drink = next-day energy score 1–10,” and even a light beer tanks my Sunday. Vodka soda did it too, so for me it’s not just sugary mixers.

My new budget move is being the DD, sipping lime soda, then actually enjoying cheap brunch instead of staring at the wall.

Not just you. I track drinks as a data point now: one glass of wine and my Oura readiness drops ~20 points, resting HR up 8–10 bpm, and I get that flat Sunday feeling.

The scale bump next day is almost always water/glycogen, and my trend line barely flinches, so I try not to spiral. For me it was partly eating way less before drinking—no buffer.

Are you logging food volume on those days? If I go in under-fueled, even 1.5 drinks feels like three.